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December Waiting

This was my first Christmas to do a personal Advent study on the days leading up to Christmas.  I grew up in a church that followed that tradition but we don’t follow that now.  I thought I’d try it this year on my own.

I used the book: For All by Becky Kiser.  HERE is a link for it on Amazon if you are interested.  I’m not an affiliate so no connection if you use my link.  It is workbook format and the Sunday/candle days are optional or could be used alone if desired.  They are in the front of the book and not mixed in with the other days.

I even made a cluster of candles from things I already had on our coffee table in the living room.  I love candles and on the nights I was sitting in the living room, would light the appropriate number of candles for the week.  Yes, as we got closer to the celebration of the Light of the World, the room got brighter as well!


In the past, our church has set up a photo area for family Christmas photos.  I was counting on it this year but they didn’t do it.  So a tree with an outlet in the wall…. and us!  (One of us still needs to find a selfie stick that will hold my big camera and case!)

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We agreed after last Christmas that we were ready for a smaller Christmas tree and I got one from Ambrose Christmas Tree Store the first week of November.  I was hoping to beat the rush (and they had trees at 30% off) but my order got lost and I waited until the week after Thanksgiving and called.  I was nearby the next day and they said they’d have it ready and they did!  I was so pleased I got it there.  Lifetime guarantee to fix and/or replace the lights or anything that goes wrong with it.  Yeah!   I had chosen the tree star from there and they had that in place as well.

Thankfully, Miss K loves to do the ornaments (I don’t!) and she finished the decorating when she got here.  ♥


And… if a day had sunshine, about 3:30 p.m. it would make the sparkles on the star reflect onto the ceiling.  Delightful!

Also for the first time EVER, I bought an Advent calendar of sorts.  A chocolate one!  At Aldi.  It must have been the 1st day they were out as I never saw them again.  Glad to have The Nutcracker vs only santa.  I put it away in a spare bedroom closet as I bought it before Thanksgiving!

And then forgot about it until the middle of December! So I decided to do it on the days of January to make that month a bit more tolerable!  I forgot and started on the 4th of January!  Ha!  Then had a family interruption that included an unplanned trip to Ohio on the 7th so got off track again.  I resumed maybe by the 17th or so.


I forgot some nights and finished on Feb 7.  Once I shared with my farmer.  He doesn’t savor chocolate…. so I didn’t want to waste it.  It was all good!!  ♥


I will watch Aldi next November for a new one!

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But that became our lot & joy last Thursday.   We expected to awaken to a few inches of snow but instead it rained all morning!!  JP & I made a trip to town and those 6 miles west of us had some snow; just covered but some grass still peeking out.

At 12:00 noon, the power went out.

At 12:05, the rain was more like sn’ain than rain.

At 12:15, it was SNOW!  Horizontal to the ground.

At 12:30, we had near zero visibility, had gone to barely 1/2 mile to not being able to even the edge of our yard that fast.

(Now if I had known in foresight, I’d have a long & photoless blog post for you, I would have been like my gf, LM, and videotaped the blizzard tho she had better visibility at her house so probably more interesting than mine would have been….)

Assuming we were going to be cold soon and long and my men had come in for lunch at noon, Phil started the generator.  We gathered a pitcher of water (cuz we usually don’t run the generator for days at a time, but let it rest here & there), had warm lunches, gathered candles and flashlights.  At our house, the generator is for the livestock first and we use a bit of it.  Minimum lights, Phil can put the furnace on 1/3 power, no large appliance use, etc.

At 4, we still had terrible conditions outside but the driveway alarm went off to our own alarms… WHO could make it here?  A dear, young lady came to the door and Phil promptly said, “Come in!”   She was asking if they could wait a bit as they could not see one bit of road.   Yes, they were welcome to come in.  She said, “We have our 4 kids with us.”  I got up to let her know there was a wife here and said the children were fine but she’d have to help me child-proof.  It was all fine as they were ages 6 – 15, so no toddlers to eat unedibles or konk heads on the coffee table.

We will call the parents P & M for the rest of the story.   They told us they were on their way home from a family funeral and only had 20 more mins in a normal day to get home.  The dear ones were scared stiff.  They only saw our old rusty mailbox and hoped there was something down this unplowed lane to go with the mailbox.  Normally you can see us from the highway with all the buildings and bins and of course, we see the cars on the highway.   We asked about P’s work and that was my next clue to my 2nd question.  I asked, “Do you homeschool your children?”  JP quickly said he graduated here.  Their answer was yes and it was a delight to see their eyes light up with kindred spirits and their countenance seemed to relax a smidgen.   She asked if we were Christians too, and more ease came with our hearty answer yes!  After less than an hour of visiting, I knew we had new friends sitting here and we also knew they were spending the night.

By later evening, we knew that our highway was closed 1 mile to the west of us and 5 miles to the east of us; both places with jack-knifed semi-trucks.  No one was going anywhere until morning after some clean-up crews came.

I told them I had one room with a queen bed but hardwood floor (so not too fun for sleeping bags) and the living room.  We’d work out details closer to bedtime.

My plan the day before had been to start a crock pot of split pea & ham soup at bedtime and freeze it Thursday morning  to send home with Keturah on Christmas.   But I didn’t have a reply from my personal cooking advisor (SER) until the morning so just started the pot on Thursday morning.   So there before us, was a crock of soup.  I also had 1/2 pan of lasagna and 1/2 loaf of bread plus cheese, ham, & roast beef for sandwiches.  M said they all would eat the soup and I was shocked that these 4 children would all eat split pea soup.

M & daughter helped with picking up the kitchen, washing extra bowls, while I deboned the ham.  About that time, nearing 6 p.m, Phil noticed “at least 2 sets of headlights” stuck at “our corner” (1/2 mile away) so was taking the tractor.  Maybe more were coming.  If one van brought me 6 people, 2 or more cars could really fill us up!  I had a mom-to-mom convo with M and she agreed the soup was thick and we could add a quart of broth.  I brought up 2 qts from the freezer and 1 was just a nice addition.  It still wasn’t watery.

Their son lit up when he saw lights from the shed!  “Is THAT the tractor?”  I explained that the 3 lights across the top were the lights in the building but the 2 bigger lights were for the tractor.  I don’t know where our binoculars were at the time but I think he would have been glued to the window or been thrilled if he was dressed to ride along.  (All were in their best clothes and thankfully their last meal was the delicious and plentiful dinner after the service.)

The children & JP were watching our outside camera from the computer and one told me there were 3 men and 3 pick-up trucks that had come to the driveway.   All had been stuck in the ditches but Phil had pulled them out.  Yes, 4-wheel drive trucks and one with a plow.  Buried in the snow.

S was the first to come in, trying to get home (20 more mins) from the tire plant and kept running into closed roads so was this far out of his way already.  He said he didn’t need soup but enjoyed the bowl that was placed before him.  About half an hour later, B returned as he was going to try to get home (same 20 more mins) when he first got here.   He also said he didn’t need soup until I put the bowl in front of him and said to scoot his chair to the table!  🙂  Yes, both older than me but seriously, I’m not letting you not eat supper!  Surely if Jesus can feed 5,000 men, he can help my plain ol’ soup feed 11.

S got a pair of Phil’s pants to change into as he was soaked thru from trying to dig himself out.  Everyone checked in with their loved ones.

In hindsight, I wish I had thought that M & I could have made a big batch of biscuits to go with the soup but it seemed I was spinning enough plates and not quite all the hostessing abilities were rising to the top.   P & M provided dessert (you know dessert is a rarity here…) of CHOCOLATE TRUFFLES!!!  Oh my dear, such delight!   JP could hardly stand it!  🙂   They were also VERY smart in that they travel with their OWN coffee and willingly offered us some of their home-roasted coffee beans.   I said we didn’t touch the stuff but I did have a coffee maker and filter.  My guests are warned ahead of time to bring their own coffee grounds.  They had a hand grinder and traveling coffee press so were happy as larks.   (Oh, I can’t imagine their dismay if they had had to go both evening and morning without their warm cups!)

We used my mom’s old organ bench to hold 3 kids on one side of the table and squandered folding chairs to go with the kitchen chairs for the rest of us.  We totalled 11 around our small table made for 6 and it was delightful!

S & B, the men that came in separately later, were being manly frustrated at not making it home AND staying in someone’s home!!  With their additions, the sleeping arrangements changed.  JP would sleep with us, S & B each had JP’s and K’s rooms, and the family kept together in the living room.  Phil got out the queen air bed & our (only 3) sleeping bags while JP ran the vacuum.   But it wasn’t bedtime and I figured we had a long evening of visiting with new friends to go.   P & JP went outside to carry containers of diesel by hand to the tractor from the pump that runs on electricity normally so needed pumped by hand.  :p   It took them quite awhile but we all chatted, some dozed, and I tapped in to my mom’s side of story-telling.  “To make a long story longer, ask Joan.”  (But I hear now, one could also ask Margaret and Evie and get the same result!  🙂  )

Then time flew by and it was WAY past bedtime for all of us bigs & littles.  JP moved a foam mattress cover to our room and I got him 2 of his kid quilts.  I gathered all the stray pillows that are in K’s room.  The kids’ beds had plenty of covers for the men so I then dug in piles in K’s room for all the larger quilts for the family.  I hope they had enough as later I thought of 2 more I could have brought out to them.  The parents and oldest shared the sectional (L-shaped) couch that has 2 ends with recliners, not made for men taller than Phil.   P is much taller; the poor guy, probably woke up bent in weird places.

I wish I had a photo to share of the 3 littles tucked into bed the long way on the air mattress.   I’ve not had sleeping babes here in a long time.  So darling!!!

At 4 a.m., I heard one man and then #2 man head out the garage door.  I knew they wouldn’t have the endurance to not try to get going early.  Far be it from them to accept breakfast from me as well!  Both headed west and found the highway blocked 1 mile away as we had been told.  M assured me that all of her family would be pleased with oatmeal.   That was easy and I got out the pan & oats and she did the rest!  I was so thankful to have her sweetness and helpfulness in the house.  And have I mentioned their 4 children are perfect angels?  Treasures!!

At 9 a.m., Phil went to the corner again as more vehicles were in ditches.  He found S!  In the ditch, again!  We assume he tried to go west to go home, couldn’t, so returned to try to get to work.  He didn’t.

After breakfast, I gave them a quick studio tour downstairs.   Now see there… I should have thought of that for our evening entertainment!  My mom is really a fine hostess and taught us well.   I just skipped a few important things with the impromptu guests.

P had his van warmed and loaded and they headed out just around 10.  A string of cars had just gone by so I’m sure they continued home with them.   We heard that snow plows from 2 counties to the east of us were digging out our road.

About noon on Friday, Phil took the tractor to our neighbor, Mark’s, to dig out his driveway.  Mark works about 30 miles to the east and travels this highway twice daily; knows it like the back of his hand like we do.  However, he would have gone by around 3 Thursday afternoon and he had NO idea where he was driving.  On the road, off the road, his lane, or the other man’s lane.  My heart broke again for this family that came an hour after Mark had gone passed.

We kept the generator going all night with the guests here.   On Friday, Phil would shut it off for a few hours here & there and boy did the house get cold fast!  My alpaca socks from K (a few years ago) were mighty helpful!  #cozy

Friday, with a bit of sunshine I got some photos while I was bored with no electricity…..

the apple tree by the kitchen had big sugar puffs on the branches  (see Nina in the background?)

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and out the west window

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Finally, at 8 p.m. Friday night, we noticed the neighbor’s outside lights had come on!!  Yeah!  Phil gleefully came back in after shutting off the generator, put the furnace back to full power, turned up the thermostat, and even turned on the Christmas tree lights!  Ahhh…..

I spent Saturday washing sheets & pillowcases and redoing the beds and nearly ignored that I was no where near ready for Christmas to come!  I hope we get to see P & M and family again.  They are so very kind and just a delight!

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